Family?

i really dun understand y such some conflicts can inflict such a big hole in the family.

juz some small attitude problem then both parties start to quarrel... n out of wat, i am juz drag into the damn stupid quarrel... this is not the bloody 1st time...

can u imagine my father n bro r having cold war juz becoz of fighting over an occupation of a drama show... weird isn't it... my bro was juz watching the jap show on tv yesterday, then father came towards him to ask who is that person. my bro say someone working in the company probably the manager. then my father say is the doctor, then of course my bro would rebute and repeatedly say is the manager. yah... while my father say is the doctor and blah blah... my bro bad attitude then came out due to irritation lah, decided not to answer my dad... yah.. then my dad starts to get bloody anger out of this stupid thing.. say wan no mannners, then something like if i dun teach u now, u would suffer in the future or wat so ever...

but pls lah... if u wanted to teach him morale, both of u shld have taught him when he was young and when he still can't rebute u right... yet u ppl let him be what he is right now... being so selfcentred and arrogant... no matter wat, shldn't have just quarrel out of something so damn ridiculous lah...

Trying to scold n find fault juz becoz of the show characters? Was it juz an excuse? Actually i would juz infer that both of them r generally in fault coz both of them like to win... so quarrel loh... To me, y muz quarrel out of like that then hurt each other by saying things u might not want to say....

then wat happen? when my dad comes to complain to me... saying how bad it would be for my bro to enter society with this kind of attitude.. then how come he is so not popular among his friends and how my dad has tolerated with my bro's attitude... my dad keep on emphasize that my bro like to win, neber want to let go a step... always wan other ppl to give in to his own idea... but where did my bro learn all this from? my dad lah... he is also someone like that mah... he like ppl to listen to his own idea only wat...

so today, my dad came back continue on watever he is saying... i said like u oso like to win mah... no point quarrel over such a small matter. then yah.. i gotten into the stupid cold war too... my dad was angry with me too now.. he walk off lah...

y muz i always be the one to be mediator of the family?
and hurting everyone else with my reconfirmation of the issue...
parents being who they were, giving us so much... i must say they deserve some basic respect. but wat more can u expect when certain things r juz like that in the society right now...

somethings we will promise,
we will not throw both our parents away and let u sleep on road side(so pls stop the rubbish complainting that u would live by the roadside when u r old)
we would provide for u juz as u provided for us ah...

the privileges of having u as our parents r important ah... i mean it is kind of like faith that we r a family, yet y when we grow up... u ppl r juz feeling so insecure and lacking of trust to us?
haiz... i think this cold war would built up and goes on for abt a few days bah...

i shld avoid any further implication from all the quarrel... study and sleep... talk anymore, i would juz breakdown...