THE FREEDOM TO TRAVEL WITH YOUR LOVE ONES

The ability to enjoy the cool breezy beach life abroad

   The ability to enjoy riding of motor bicycle on a railway as a family

the ability to enjoy nice scenery & leave down wonderful memories

It had never occur to me to pick up this blogspot again after 10 over years...
Still searching for happiness nonetheless.
Still no partner besides me after all this years.
Yet, i felt entitled and satisfied with what i have chosen for my life all this while.

It might not be of riches or status in life. (Still the mediocre me)
I had a dream to be able to travel overseas.
Especially, I have envied  my classmate whom get to travel around the world with their parents since young.
As My parents had worked all their life being busy at mundane work in order to raise both of my brother and i, they never had the chance or spare cash to think of stepping out of Singapore.
I believe being able to travel out for them is equally eyeopener for us as for them as well.

Hence with my little payroll cheque, i had save up enough money from bonus that was received from working and collaborating with my little brother's portion to make our family overseas trip a reality.

It took baby step to help ourselves understand how your love ones wish and felt. Thankful for all this small steps we took and able to enjoy through our trips.

Above photos are taken 3 years back in Jeju and Seoul..

At times of this Covid 19 situation when all have to stay at home to protect our love ones. It highlights to me the importance of family, the importance of freedom to do what we wish and taken for granted all the while.

Let's all be safe and stay home whenever we could in order to enjoy the sweetness of freedom we wished for.   

Happiness is free

Happiness is free

For you and me

Happiness is free

If you want it to be

眼泪度日

 不小心留下了几滴泪。。。

真的好想不开，做得不来。好失望，没弄好该做的本分。。。

活的一点也不开心， 好像一直在逃避现实。。。

真的好难，真的好难。。。

Read an article below summarise that found it interesting

每周断食一两天 增强脑力更长寿

studies find that if we manage to lesser in take one or two days per weeks would be much better than starving yourself daily to obtain the result of slimming down. At the same time, brains cell would re-generate even faster if energy level is keep lower on one or two days. 

hmm, how can i survive to starve myself to improve my  brain cells? :)

好嘞哦！

真的不容易哦，人到一个职位就有一定的烦恼。。。
每天都有不一样的新问题，还不是容易解决的，
好想像小飞侠，辟宇。。消失不见。。。
不去想，不去面对， 简简单单的过生活！

looking for directions.. looking for happiness... looking for contentment...

y should life be so hard?

can anyone be able to juz live life simple? even in this fast pace society, we have to face so many kinds of different challenges. Must think of so many kinds of politics and concerns... everything have to be forewarn...

maybe a place with kids is fun?? but whatever a place filled with angry and grimson kids... is that a scary things once again?

Being a nobody can be so relaxing yet it would still poses a high level threat n stress within as well.

I want to break, I want to break loose of my bonds, I want to simply "nuah"

How can life be any simpler?

Let's learn how to breathe and push ourselves back to the in"sanity world"... I really missed my freedom days...

2 more years... Bond u will be gone!!!

大家好！
新的一年到了，不觉得是一个非常好的龙年。。。
一开始就有一定的血光之灾。。。
一家人都招央，还是接二连三的，
先是一家之主的阿发- 受发生剧烈疼痛。。。 看了很多医生 就是没好，推拿师傅说是颈椎移位，长期累积的。
家的王太后，新年做工时又跌到！肿了超大力的淤血。心疼。
家的小少爷，就是课业有点不顺。。自于我就一颗头两颗大，先前大量流失坏的血，然后出去沙滩排球究起水苞，害得我现在还是一拐一拐的。 打桌球撞得手鸿运当头，满手鲜血，亥。
真是不一样的开始。。。
大家一定要加油和平安。。。

At times when one is too comfort in her zone. She is reluctant to move even a small tiny step.

she need someone or something to upset her to kick her into action.

I am one of this person.

Action have to be done soon. I am in need of an new environment soon.

A new learning ground to explore and new place to meet new ppl.

i always pin so much hope that more responsiblity can fall unto me from my comfort zone.

Well, it never happened.

It is really quite sad & pathetic that one can be the forgotten person in the team.

Forever the left behind kid...

so....

Preparation for a trip..

I realise there is a lot to prepare for if you are going to a place of different climate.

so much to know, so much to spend on, so much to gather. since like neber ending stuff...

we need to gather so many things and i can obtain so much knowledge regarding things of travel from my friends...

Hectic but interesting to know... Mountain tortorise is learning from the advance flying folks...

:)great that i had the chance to do so with the gals while i am still young.

KOREA... we r going to see u real soon...

u gonna be good... Hehe... 안녕하레요 한국!!!

This year's celebration was really different...

peaceful was the rightful word...

i muz say i didnt had the exact feel of the season...

i juz realise that i really dunno alot of things...

called it dilemna period...

i think i will sort it out soon...

Next Aim in mind...

Getting Driving License in 2011... (3k)

Try Repay the $15k for study Loan...

way to go!!! Bro say pls tighten your money belt n repay everything....

it seems the best idea to do so...

Shall really work towards it...

Wish me Luck.. i now can monitor my progress...

Merry Christmas to all!!!

Revive interest... i Trully missed my Favorite Volleyball

The Asian games 2010, it had been rather interesting to view... so i came online searching for more clips .. Out of the 2 video, the first is between Russia vs Brazil fighting for World championship 2010.... hmm, a bit blur image but i think it is still a tough fight...

update to the previous post...

The GIVE IN

After a night of thinking, S made a decision... S is giving S's Dad additional $200 to help resolve partially his issue. This would mean that S have to cut down all expenses of spending this month... including going out with fren for entertainment, favorite shopping of clothes, bags, shoes n cosmetics n toiletries spending. (coz all of the above, no matter how little it is, would accumulate to a certain amt)

Hmm, but rest assure S has already set aside enuff money for the special event n things for special event.

Hence till S's next pay Day... She would rather live a hermit life n save every single cents...
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Sorry Pals... can't really join u guys... feeling even more paisei, making u guys sacrifice to go to really cheap places with not really good food... will be back to join once pay day is out again which is last week of the month .

call me jealous, call me petty... i dun care...

its small issue, yet i really have the urge to blow it up...

Today after a tired step aerobics session n returning early back home...

S's dad came to the door to help open, the first sentence S heard was " tot it was E coming back " with a disappointed voice from the dad...

Bear in mind E would only be back on the 17th...

S know that everyone started missing E lah... so didnt really think so much... but deep down S is always jealous y her dad love E so wholeheartedly, giving him all the attention & everything he requested. hmm, S's dad treated her not bad i must say. But S can really feel the difference between the S and E with their Dad...

No matter how E can be ridiculous with, the Dad will always find excuse to tolerate and make it sound reasonable... S's dad is now under constant pressure to try to earn more money to give more allowance to E bcoz he requested... when S's dad say he doesnt have enuff money, its bcoz he want to save more for E and buy more no used de VCD that can filled up a full 2 door cupboard.

sometimes S juz wan to treat the family better, giving them the opportunity to enjoy life in a different manner in her little way...

Alright so S went to approach S's mum abt this short trip.
S's mum is quite favorable to the trip; since it is not too exp.
Then S's dad have this long 5 days break from his job after 5 years of working non-stop daily except for chinese new year.
So S juz wanted to let her parents enjoy a day.
Then she went to approach her dad with the same idea happily...

Before S get to say anything, S's dad rejected immediately.
S's dad want to wait till E complete Uni then start his so called next phrase of life.
Pls loh, S's dad never knows that E doesn't want to travel with them at all.. E rather share the Airfare to let the parents go overseas; than joining them on a trip.
Hmm, Anyway S oso explained that everything would be under S's expense, not as if S would let them pay for a short cheap trip ...

S was clearly disappointed n abit angry for this small issue that S's dad is always bias towards his son... S will continue to boil for pot unhappiness for a few Days n hopefully everything will be going back to norm...

it had been ages before the new updates is back...

times flew as usual...

everyone had been up n earnest on the slimming section...

i had been very much lagging behind... yet doing my slow part in performing my walk routine...

it is easy juz time consuming...

it is really hard to curb your diet n not constantly think of food n snack...

it is also not easy to maintain high level of energy when your body is in the low energy section.

yet i witness determination from my dear friends ard me being able to maintain a balance n healthy diet while exercising excessively...

i need an companion to force me n work together

i give too much excuses juz like the tv advertisement... Action always speaks louder than words...

Jiayou Bah... wat i need to do the slim down.... dreaming once again...

i finally found the 2 song i wanted to share with the gals...

i found it nice...



Above is the mv i wanted to show the gals (so here it is)

Below is the mv that i will cry after hearing n watching... i dun understand it myself too... everytime i juz see the MV, tears juz drop... my crying tolerance level has reach another depth...




i suddenly realised that i like MV that has good attractive storyline...

I guess AT times i am juz plain stupid!!!!

How can i let the same incident happen twice....

i juz feel that i am asking for it, sometimes y am i so tolerant n forgetful...

y can't i juz reject to help!!! Stupid -_-!

i juz think that i am the jinx to that bloody website... I hate it!!!! Being of No HELP...

n y muz i always be the receiving end to get the bloody *** language?!?

then the sudden cut of phone call...

.... refused to talk then....

RECENTLY I DID A REAL CHANGE TO MY HAIR

i cut it real short.... hmm, different from my usual look...

i really make that step to go in to that saloon that i tot i might get a change with...

come see me bah...

hmm. as usual the stylist suggest color change next up...

i shall see how whether i am really up to it anot...

hmm,i think u might mistood me as a boy from the back bah, If i anyhow dress again...

heehee... but i think it is a rather good change!!!

Starting to like change... simple as changing a hair style... brings joy!!!

It all came to an end of one month soccer filled nights at different location.

There are times of happiness and times of anger and dissappointment....

This season was filled with many surprises on the match field.

No matter it was at Community Centre, Macdonald or at robertson walk...
i guess it was the companion watching together with and engrossing themselves to the match..
The group attention is one of the key factor in making the match so exciting, sometimes fun...

For instance, the german vs argentina at Robertson walk... so many people cheering to the max...

This year, it is my first time, i had been really watching intensely with the gals.

Haha.. neber know that i could have such an extend of interest into other sports...

Alright, Let's have some rest and back to routine work....